Monday, October 29, 2012
The sunny girl and I hit our local grocery store one last time before we began to seriously hunker down and wait out Hurricane Sandy. We were already bored and stir-crazy, and felt the need to buy those last minute emergency supplies that would help ensure that we will make it through the storm unscathed -- staples like brownie mix, potato chips, and wine.
We did notice that our fellow citizens had emptied certain key shelves . . . .
While the store still had water in gallon jugs, there is no more individually bottled water to be had.
Do you need AA batteries? You're in luck! Also available: AAA, 9V, and C batteries. But if your flashlights and lanterns take D batteries, you are so screwed.
And as it turns out, you are also screwed if you need tortilla chips. Apparently nachos, and chips with salsa, are necessities for sheltering in place. Good thing the sunny girl and I snagged the very last bag of Tostitos Scoops in the store.
Because that would have been a catastrophe.
Wednesday, October 24, 2012
Well, so this past weekend I packed up the sunny girl and the husband, and took them along with me on a little mini-vacation to Rehoboth Beach, Delaware, to meet up with some of my besties from college.
People, we had a fabulous time!
My friends and I have seen each other only sporadically over the years. Partly this is because they settled down over there, and he lives way up there, while I came back to my hometown down here. It's also true that life and stuff happened (as it does to us all), and there were some lean years when the money for a get-away seemed (at the time) to be better spent on rent or the mortgage, and braces for the kids, and dance lessons, and a new car to replace the POS, and college tuition for the urchins, and a new softball bat, and summer camp and medical bills and . . . . You get the picture.
But this year we all turned fifty, and we (by which I mean Allison) decided that to celebrate, we needed to lay eyes on each other in person, and not just on Facebook.
So Allison is quite the cruise director as it turns out. She found us the most fabulous house that is the farthest thing from a shack you can imagine, and waved a magic wand so that both her girl and my girl could take the PSAT at a time that didn't ruin our plans, and nudged Terry and me into confirming those plans and packing our bags and actually getting our asses into gear -- all without raising her voice once.
I just love Allison!
Check out this awesome house!
There were the most comfortable, nap-worthy sofas . . .
. . . including this one that the two teenagers decided was the "best sofa ever" and plotted to sneak into a duffle bag. I never said they had good spatial relations.
There was a most excellent porch off of the bedroom assigned to the husband and me . . .
. . . and king-sized beds for both of the loving couples in the group. Dennis and Allison needed a ladder to get into their bed, and worried about nosebleeds all night long -- but tell me the glamour of this room is not worth a nose bleed??
Terry cooked for us in a beautifully appointed kitchen (words like Viking and Sub-Zero can be bandied about here), and provided -- single-handedly -- a meal that included roasted chicken, mushroom risotto, salad with creamy goat cheese, and white chocolate mousse. For real, y'all.
It did not suck.
We watched old movies (Oklahoma! and Gentlemen Prefer Blondes, because we do love the show tunes), and played cards (and Terry just appears to be sweet, but really is a ruthless, Hearts-dominating bastard, which I say lovingly even though I got my ass kicked), and strolled along Rehoboth Avenue . . .
But mostly, we just loved spending time together.
These are the people who helped me grow up. We all met on the very first night of Freshman Orientation, in August of 1980, and have been friends ever since. They have known me at my worst and my best, my silliest and my most earnest, drunk and sober, happy and sad. And they have loved me all along.
How lucky am I?
Monday, October 1, 2012
OK, so I am sorry to report to you that my tall boy is back in the hospital. You may remember that he had some pretty significant and scary (not to mention painful) surgery last month. The universal thinking six weeks ago was that a procedure called a pleurodesis would save the world, cure cancer, re-kill Osama Bin Ladin, ensure that pandas live forever, and send our tall boy out into the world with permanently fixed lungs.
As it turns out, his continuing pulmonary woes are -- well, they are continuing.
The ways that this sucks are multiple and varied, and I could go on for days about how crappy this is, but frankly, I'm too tired. But the sunny girl told me that I could blog the lazy way, and show you some screen captures of the texts that I have sent to various people as we have sat with our boy, while he hears super-smart, super-confident, super-experienced cardio-thoracic surgeons and pulmonologists and interventional radiologists (which I didn't even know was a thing, but it is) -- plus Uncle Doctor (who is an OB-GYN) -- say, "damned if we can figure this out." Tragically, I'm not even paraphrasing.
Then the sunny girl talked me through the whole "screen capture" thing, which I didn't even know was a thing, but it is. So any successful screen captures are thanks to her.
So -- here's what happened this time:
So -- that's pretty much where we are right now. The tall boy is in the hospital, tethered to a chest tube and a pleural pump, with no end in sight. He could be -- justifiably -- so depressed and cranky and mean. But he is my hero because he has repeatedly said, "It is pointless to get pissy about things I cannot control." We should all be wearing this on a t-shirt.
SHE (who is turning out to be the world's greatest girlfriend) has been his only bright spot in a really very discouraging turn of events.
Well, HER and his grandpa -- who brought him a fabulous Italian sub and ate lunch with him while talking about the Redskins game and Eisenhower. Oh -- and his cousin, who is studying to be a nurse and was really nice about not asking to see his chest tube up close and personal, and who brought him a balloon that is basically a dead fish (which cracked him up). And Lisa and her husband, who have visited every single day. And Grandma Carol and Aunt Heidi, who brought him a watercolor set (people -- this tall boy is BORED). And his professors at Catholic University, who, to a person, have been so supportive and gracious and have made sure he concentrates on getting better instead of on papers due and classes missed. And all the people (Coleen, Sheri, Judy, Susan, Kathy, David, Lissa, Andrew, Carolyn, Mary) who have joshed and joked and jollied with him on Facebook and via text, as he faces a frustrating and frightening turn of events. Plus the prayer warriors: Annalisa and Jim, James and Betty, Carol Jean and Jim, Steven and Terry, Holly, Bonnie, Cristie, Bob and Elaine, Katey, Jane, Randy, Meghan, Lourdes, Mark, Lissa, Scott, Rafe, Alan, Jana, Saskia, Wendy, Matt, Rosemary, Joe. And my dear, dear blog friends around the world: Polly, Heather, Maureen, Diane, Rena, Holly, and others I don't even know about.
He is a lucky, lucky tall boy.
We love you all very much.